Someone in Seoul is new to the milongas and asked me how he can enjoy himself. Here are my 10 recommendations: 1. Listen to the music, whether you are dancing or not. Find out what music you like and what music you don't like. 2. When you like the music, dance; if you don't like the music, don't dance. 3. Dance with the people you like dancing with, try not to dance with peopl..